Dan Carter, the legendary All Blacks fly-half, has inspired countless rugby players, but his own son, Rocco, has an unexpected request. In a heartwarming yet humbling moment, Rocco asked his dad to find him a kicking coach, even suggesting Richie Mo'unga or Beauden Barrett, two renowned players. But here's the twist: Carter, a three-time World Rugby Player of the Year, is arguably one of the greatest kickers the game has ever seen!
Carter's remarkable career is a testament to his skill. With 1,598 points, he remains the all-time leading scorer in Test rugby, a record that stands tall even a decade after his final All Blacks appearance. His performance in the 2005 British and Irish Lions series is still considered one of the best individual displays in rugby history.
However, to his four sons, Carter is simply 'Dad'. In a candid interview, Carter reveals the amusing reality of parenting, where his rugby expertise doesn't always impress his kids. They often prefer listening to their coaches over their world-famous father. And when Rocco asked for a kicking coach, Carter's wife couldn't help but laugh, highlighting the delightful innocence of childhood.
But this story is about more than just a funny family moment. It delves into Carter's post-playing struggles and his search for a new purpose. He reflects on his current role as a father, cherishing the weekends spent with his children, aged 4, 6, 10, and 12. Carter admits that he enjoys the freedom of weekends without rugby, a stark contrast to his playing days.
Now, Carter finds himself on the sidelines of junior rugby, occasionally coaching and refereeing. He shares his experiences, including the challenges of dealing with overzealous parents. Yet, he finds satisfaction in knowing that his rugby knowledge commands respect, even from the parents.
Carter's career ended on a high, winning the Top League title in Japan, adding to his Super Rugby and French titles. But the decision to retire was a profound one. It was his son's question about returning to Japan that made Carter realize he was playing for the wrong reasons. He understood that his family, especially his children, valued his presence at home more than his rugby achievements.
This story raises an intriguing question: How do sports icons balance their professional legacies with the simple desires of their families? Is it possible to be both a legendary athlete and a 'regular' parent? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don't miss the full interview in the latest issue of Rugby Journal.
